The dynamic
How Aries and Libra get on
Aries and Libra are on opposite sides of the zodiac, 180° apart. Opposite signs share a mode (cardinal), and their elements, fire and air, complete each other. Each of you has what the other lacks. You feel a strong attraction, and you also disagree often about the right way to do things.
Love · Flow
In love
The attraction is immediate. For lasting love, treat your differences as skills that complete each other, not as a competition. In a relationship, Aries looks for honesty, some challenge and the chance to lead. Libra looks for fairness, good manners and a partnership of equals.
Friendship · Steady
As friends
As friends, Aries is the one who suggests the plan and makes it happen. Libra is the one who keeps the evening pleasant and knows the right restaurant. You keep each other honest. Each of you notices what the other misses.
Work · Steady
At work
At work, Aries gets results by acting first and correcting mistakes later. Libra gets results by finding a solution that everyone can accept. Aries and Libra are both cardinal signs. Cardinal signs start the seasons, and they like to start things and lead. Share the leading, or you will compete for it.
Making it work
Three things to try
- Sometimes swap roles. Let Aries try Libra’s way for a week, and then do the opposite.
- Watch for impatience from Aries and indecision from Libra.
- For a fuller answer, compare your whole birth charts, starting with your Moon and Venus signs.